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Starting Over in Love: Learning to Desire What I Never Saw

I never saw love done well, but I’m willing to learn. I’m choosing me first-not as a wall, but as a way to finally invite what’s real. I’ve always wondered why I never really dreamed big when it came to love. I’ve watched so many women around me talk about their dream wedding or theirContinue reading “Starting Over in Love: Learning to Desire What I Never Saw”

Lessons I Keep Learning the Hard Way

Some lessons don’t come easy — they come back until you finally face them. In this post, I open up about the hard truths I’ve had to relearn when it comes to peace, boundaries, friendship, and starting over.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re learning the same emotional lesson again and again… this one’s for you.

Beyond the Rhythm: Standing Firm When They Come for Your Character

Some posts are harder to write than others.This one comes from a place of reflection, not retaliation.I’m sharing this experience because starting over isn’t just about chasing new dreams — it’s also about protecting your peace when life tests you in unexpected ways. Here’s a chapter I didn’t expect to live through, but one thatContinue reading “Beyond the Rhythm: Standing Firm When They Come for Your Character”

I Don’t Remember a Happy Birthday

I don’t remember a happy birthday. Not when I was a child, not even now as an adult. Every year, I find myself trying to force excitement, trying to make the day feel special-but underneath it all, there’s always this familiar ache. Today, as I went to collect my birthday freebies, it hit me harderContinue reading “I Don’t Remember a Happy Birthday”

The Quiet Strength of Starting Over

“This is just one hump, one hurdle. But I’ve come too far to let the weight of negative thoughts hold me down.” The Breakdown (Literally & Mentally) My car’s been out of commission for a while now. And honestly, I’m frustrated—not just at the situation, but at myself. I ignored the small repairs when theyContinue reading “The Quiet Strength of Starting Over”

Ramblings at 4:50am

April 25, 2025 – A quiet moment with Lofi and J. It’s 4:50 in the morning. I’m curled up in the recliner, Lofi Girl playing softly on YouTube while our little Maltese, J., snores beside me. This might just be another rambling session, but honestly? Most of my ramblings turn into semi-decent blog posts, soContinue reading “Ramblings at 4:50am”

Welcome to My Fresh Start

Hi there! My name is Divanskye, and I’m a 38-year-old mom navigating life with my incredible 12-year-old son. By day (or rather, night), I’m an overnight pharmacy technician at a hospital, and by heart, I’m a single mom embracing the journey of starting over. Right now, home is a lively multigenerational space that I shareContinue reading “Welcome to My Fresh Start”