“Sometimes the breakdown is really the breakthrough in disguise. Between the broken ankle, the job loss, and the late-night tears, I realized I was being rerouted, not rejected. This chapter is about choosing growth over grief, learning to rise when life ‘life’s,’ and remembering that yesterday’s price is not today’s price.”
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5:41 AM- A Heart Heavy with Truth
It hit me before sunrise—how heavy healing can feel.
Some mornings, it’s not motivation I need. It’s honesty.
I’m learning that letting myself feel it is part of moving through it.
And today, that’s enough.
💭 Have you ever had a moment where the truth sat on your chest before the day began?
Share if this speaks to you—or save it for the next time your heart wakes up early.
Finding My Focus Again: From Frustration to Forward Motion
I was overwhelmed, distracted, and stuck in cycles that kept me still.
But the moment I stopped beating myself up for falling behind,
I started moving forward again. Slowly. Intentionally.
This isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress.
🧠 What helps you refocus when life gets loud?
Let me know in the comments or save this post as your reminder to begin again.
Maybe I Needed This Break
Maybe I wasn’t falling off. Maybe I was falling back into myself.
This break taught me that rest is not weakness—it’s wisdom.
I didn’t need to push through. I needed to pause.
And now, I return softer, clearer, and more rooted than before.
🌱 Have you given yourself permission to slow down lately?
Drop a 🌸 if this resonates or share this with someone who needs the reminder.
12 Minutes and 45 Seconds: A Crash Out Confession
“If this is what healing feels like… I’m ready for more.” I went on a 12-minute and 45-second rant on the way home from—well, honestly—a crash out. That’s the best way I can describe it. It was heavy. Raw. Unfiltered.Full of self-doubt.Jealousy.Blame.Pressure.Emotion.Overthinking.All within 12 minutes and 45 seconds. And I complained. Yes—I complained. I cried.Continue reading “12 Minutes and 45 Seconds: A Crash Out Confession”
The Everything Shower That Reset My Whole Spirit
This morning called for an everything shower. Nair, exfoliate, moisturize-yes. But most importantly, I spoke love and life over myself. I’m deep in my DIY era, learning to pour into me more intentionally-despite the chaos, the pressure, the circumstances I’m navigating. There’s something sacred about that hot water hitting your body and washing away theContinue reading “The Everything Shower That Reset My Whole Spirit”
Learning Out Loud: My Unfiltered Thoughts on Motherhood
I haven’t written much about being a mother. Not because I didn’t want to—but because I was scared of being judged. This post is my way of letting you in. Of learning, loving, and healing—out loud.
Starting Over in Love: Learning to Desire What I Never Saw
I never saw love done well, but I’m willing to learn. I’m choosing me first-not as a wall, but as a way to finally invite what’s real. I’ve always wondered why I never really dreamed big when it came to love. I’ve watched so many women around me talk about their dream wedding or theirContinue reading “Starting Over in Love: Learning to Desire What I Never Saw”
Lessons I Keep Learning the Hard Way
Some lessons don’t come easy — they come back until you finally face them. In this post, I open up about the hard truths I’ve had to relearn when it comes to peace, boundaries, friendship, and starting over.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re learning the same emotional lesson again and again… this one’s for you.
Beyond the Rhythm: Standing Firm When They Come for Your Character
Some posts are harder to write than others.This one comes from a place of reflection, not retaliation.I’m sharing this experience because starting over isn’t just about chasing new dreams — it’s also about protecting your peace when life tests you in unexpected ways. Here’s a chapter I didn’t expect to live through, but one thatContinue reading “Beyond the Rhythm: Standing Firm When They Come for Your Character”
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